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Posted: Mon May 03, 2010 5:09 am
Yeah Iv been dating for a while but my last girlfriend tore my heart to pieces . I loved her and gave it all away for no reason . But yeah now I regret ever dating I wish I would have stuck with the no dating thing like its supposed to be.
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Posted: Mon May 03, 2010 11:40 am
don't worry. nobody lives without making mistakes. ^^ allah will forgive you if you truely leave it and never come back to it. ^^
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Posted: Mon May 03, 2010 2:48 pm
Oh, c'mon, man, you're gonna quit just like that? After one silly girl dumped you? I mean, hell, God's not just gonna drop a chick in the middle of the road and be like, "Hey, here's your girl." She's gonna have to be sought after in an unlooked for way. You'll meet a lotta girls, yeah, and probably go through a ton of 'em, but you're gonna get more mature doing that, that way if y'want to marry her, you've got a good head on your shoulders.
Besides, in the process of dating, you learn valuable tips. What to do, what not to do, how to act, how to love and be loved in return for your loving. So don't drop yourself down like a sack of emo-potatoes--no friend, teacher, parent, or potential date will tolerate that, and you shouldn't tolerate that of yourself.
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Posted: Mon May 03, 2010 7:26 pm
Okay, completely ignore Nephil because that is NOT the way of the Submitters of God (AKA: MUSLIMS). But like Plusle said, you can be forgiven by Allah if you truly won't do it again & repent & ask for His forgiveness. He is Ever Merciful...Don't give up on finding your true love, but don't do forbidden things to find her. Allah knows all.
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dark__sunshin Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 10:46 am
Wow.. Nephil rly... r u a Muslim?! because what you're saying has nothing to do with what the Rasull[PBUH] has taught us and what Allah[SWT] ordered us. XD
Anyways, I wanted to tell you that regretting is a good thing XD at least you know that u had made a mistake, but besides to regretting u need to say ask clemency from Allah[SWT] and just think of something else which is more constructive in life XD and of course don't renounce love =) .. but please let it be Decent ;D.. Deal?!!
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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 11:52 am
Yup =)
Actually this is for general discussions, but nvm xD
If I was old enough, and I found a girl which I liked alot, and if she was muslim, I would maybe ask for "her hand", or wutever u call it razz But in a muslim way, right? biggrin
U just don't seem that old (corect me if i'm wrong). And that girl, was she muslim? If not, then u should just explain. That's what I do if a girl asks me. People are understandable 3nodding
Well that girl, it dosn't matter as long as u didn't do fitnah or anything like that. Just ask Allah to forive, cuz Allah is the forgiving smile
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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 1:52 pm
How's dating wrong? And how are you supposed to know if you like someone if you don't get to know them?
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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 7:28 pm
Silver Nephil How's dating wrong? And how are you supposed to know if you like someone if you don't get to know them? It's wrong because you don't need to be physical to love someone, to get to know them. Flirting only leads to lust & other things that are meant for marriage. One should only be willing to let someone be physically intimate with them when they are the only one they will ever be with. It's complete commitment. With dating, it's picking & choosing, which is not permanent. You're giving up your body (even kissing is bad in this way) for someone you aren't sure you'll be with. Within marriage, you know that's the one you will be with (of course divorce is an option, but always a last resort, & Allah understands & judges all fairly). I'm in love, but I am not dating my loved one. We talk & we are both willing to wait, which also means more to us because we know we're truly committed to one another. When people date, the likeliness of giving up your chastity is much greater as well.
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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 4:39 am
Saddest Shade of Kitsune Silver Nephil How's dating wrong? And how are you supposed to know if you like someone if you don't get to know them? It's wrong because you don't need to be physical to love someone, to get to know them. Flirting only leads to lust & other things that are meant for marriage. One should only be willing to let someone be physically intimate with them when they are the only one they will ever be with. It's complete commitment. With dating, it's picking & choosing, which is not permanent. You're giving up your body (even kissing is bad in this way) for someone you aren't sure you'll be with. Within marriage, you know that's the one you will be with (of course divorce is an option, but always a last resort, & Allah understands & judges all fairly). I'm in love, but I am not dating my loved one. We talk & we are both willing to wait, which also means more to us because we know we're truly committed to one another. When people date, the likeliness of giving up your chastity is much greater as well.Well said smile
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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 1:46 pm
*sits, waits for brain to wrap around concept* *taps foot* Sorry, this'll take a while. *puts on some music to speed up the process*
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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 4:02 pm
Silver Nephil *sits, waits for brain to wrap around concept* *taps foot* Sorry, this'll take a while. *puts on some music to speed up the process* ^_^ dnt wrry it'll sink in sooner or later
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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 7:52 pm
Living within American society makes it hard to understand, but once you understand, you realize how terribly backward things here really are.
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 6:00 am
Silver Nephil is thinking about converting, he is that known about Islam YET, just so u know smile
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 4:28 pm
The_Pathan Silver Nephil is thinking about converting, he is that known about Islam YET, just so u know smile OOOOHHHHHH....well thts great if he's thinking about converting 2 Islam ^_^
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 4:40 pm
^_^; are you guys gonna glomp me cuz he told you that?
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