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So, I'm not telling you guys this so you guys pity me or anything. I'm telling you guys this 'cause I want to know what you guys think. And I can't tell this to people I know in real life to hear their comments.
So my girlfriend broke up with me over MSN. It was so suddenly, we were talking just like any other day, then she just popped the question "Do you want to break up?" I asked her why, and she said that she doesn't want me to get hurt. I ask her why I would get hurt, she said that since some of her family members are parts of gangs, they might not like her going out with me, a half white half hmong kid who doesn't speak hmong and is a Christian. So she says she is scared I'd get beaten up and she doesn't want me to get hurt. But I don't think that was the real reason. Later on in our conversation she says that she still loves me, but we should just be friends right now 'cause we didn't know each other that long before we started to go out. That part confused me. She loves me, but she doesn't want to go out anymore. Then later she asked if we would still talk and I told her yes. She then goes on telling me how she feels like she is making a bad choice letting a "perfect guy" like me go. She says people would think she is crazy and that she is a slut. I don't really understand this.
Before we broke up, she asked me if I wanted to. I told her I didn't want to, but it would be a waste for me and her if only one of us wanted to be in a relationship. She asks me if I would take her back if she asked to be taken back, what do I say to that?
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Posted: Tue Nov 30, 2010 4:05 am
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Posted: Tue Nov 30, 2010 1:35 pm
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i'm sorry, but i really don't have all that much advice. :/ It sounds like, more than anything, she's confused. Her head, gut, and heart are telling her different things. Speaking on her half, i think she needs to spend a little while by herself, and understand what her integrity tells her to do. So, she might reason this as a "break," but i don't know. i would say that you might need to back off slightly, to give her room to think. But really, what is your heart telling you to do? Go from there. wink
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2010 8:29 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 04, 2010 7:31 pm
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CrimsonsDecayingRose i'm sorry, but i really don't have all that much advice. :/ It sounds like, more than anything, she's confused. Her head, gut, and heart are telling her different things. Speaking on her half, i think she needs to spend a little while by herself, and understand what her integrity tells her to do. So, she might reason this as a "break," but i don't know. i would say that you might need to back off slightly, to give her room to think. But really, what is your heart telling you to do? Go from there. wink
Since Mr. Chris is OBBESSED with Facebook. I would "L I K E" this comment, Crimson. (;
First off; urm. How long have you guys been together and how much do you know about her?
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Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2010 5:13 pm
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:48 pm
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 2:11 pm
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 7:06 pm
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 10:58 am
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 8:19 pm
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