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Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 4:44 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 9:01 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 11:57 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 8:08 am
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Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 10:29 am
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Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 12:23 pm
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Your roommate is overreacting, yes. She needed her stuff moved, plain and simple. It's not like you were rummaging through her things looking to take something. If she were there, she would have had to do it anyway, you were saving both you and her a lot of trouble and money. No, you don't deserve to be treated this way, you definitely don't need any validation for that. Sadly, you can't make her trust you, which is definitely a key issue here (though her grandmother passing may have made her more vulnerable and sensitive, which could have aided in the overreaction as well). You can't say anything to her that'll make her stop, you'll have to wait for her to lighten up herself. Having the person you're upset with tell you you shouldn't be never sits well, even if they're in the wrong for acting that way. As long as she isn't doing any damage (good thing your friends aren't as silly as she is), I'm sure you'll be fine. In the end, she is just a roommate, you don't need her to like or trust you, her liking and trust isn't necessary. Just be civil, don't push conversations, just let her be her. Hopefully she'll eventually get over it.
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Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 1:45 pm
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2012 8:09 am
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