Welcome to Gaia! ::

I will be very honest, and I will get this out of the way now so as not to lead anyone astray. I am a polygamist. I am in a currently long distance, open marriage. That being said, I'm sure you're already questioning why I'm looking at all. I do not fall in love easily, this is true, and while I love my husband, there are just some things a man cannot do for me, things I do no feel complete without a woman by my side - it's an emotional thing, a support thing, and it's hard to explain without being judged. I am pansexual, and while I may be currently looking for girls to make that special connection with, I am, of course, open to making a connection with anyone. If you are still interested, feel free to keep reading.

My birth name is Amanda Lesley May, but I do not like being called that, so everyone calls me by my childhood nickname Ember (save for parents and a couple of close friends). I will be 20 in July, but I tend to round up. I adore cats, and love to draw. I'm also a casual gamer, and I enjoy my lazy weekends at home, snuggled under blankets trying to keep warm.

I was born in a small town in Ontario, and am looking to move to Victoria. Red is my favourite colour, and I'm not all that much of a girly-girl. I'm more tomboyish.

I'm pretty attached to my phone. It's kind of an addiction, which kinda sucks - BUT WHAT CAN YOU DO.

Anyways, I would love to even just make FRIENDS with people. If more comes from that, I would be thrilled.

Im not really expecting anyone to respond here, or PM me, or leave me a comment on my profile, or whatever it is people are gonna possibly be interested in doing. But I am open to communicating, and if anyone is interested in giving this complicated gal a shot, fele free to drop me a line somewhere~!