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To some people |
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Posted: Fri Jun 28, 2013 6:19 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 28, 2013 8:48 pm
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I came out a long time ago. I told everyone who knew me personally, that I wasn't straight.
Something like, "Dude, I'm not even straight. Not bi. Not a lesbian. I just, like, like who I like."
Lol.
I don't know what I am exactly, I just say pansexual. I like boys, girls, trans, ect. based on personality. BUT, I haven't been attracted to anyone in 6 years, not romantically nor sexually. Feelings just don't develop anymore, so it's kind of like I don't have a sexuality.
If that makes any sense.
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Posted: Sat Jun 29, 2013 7:15 am
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Posted: Fri Jul 19, 2013 5:26 pm
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Posted: Fri Jul 19, 2013 7:19 pm
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I'm genderfluid and homoflexible/lesbian (there's really only one exception, but because he's my fiance, worth noting). I guess I'm somewhat out. It's kinda hard to hide the "gender" aspect (I am genderfluid and make no effort to hide it) but I don't introduce myself as "Hi, I'm Hunter, I'm genderfluid/genderqueer"...some people (including most of my family) think of me as a very androgynous woman, and because they have prejudices of their own, I let them go on that. If someone asks, though, I will tell them, honestly, that I am genderfluid.
With sexuality it's a bit more complicated. I came out lesbian on a pretty complete scale in early adolescence. Later on, when my family re-entered the picture (I was a foster) I told some of them the truth and others I tactfully chose to hide it from. When I was 18, there was the additional complication that I began dating my now-fiance, who is a cisgendered male...so a lot of people, who had come to know me as a lesbian, were a bit confused. Like "Lesbian? Doesn't that mean you ******** girls and don't go for guys?"
I honestly still have no interest in guys, sexually or romantically, other than my fiance. With sex, I'll have sex with him and enjoy it, but straight porn just kinda grosses me out. Lesbian porn I'm fine with, but introduce a p***s into the porn and I'm pretty quick to turn it off. But my fiance is just fine as a cisgendered male with a p***s. It's confusing. Like I'm still lesbian, he's just the exception? I don't know. But for those who needed a firm answer, I had to readjust my stance and "come out again" as homoflexible.
I wouldn't even bother putting labels on it if everyone in my world didn't seem so interested...I am myself, I like who I like, I love who I love, I ******** who I ********. I don't see how it matters to anyone I am not having sex with, and if I'm going to have sex with someone, I get their permission first, so you won't ******** me if you don't want to. I came out as lesbian when I was younger so that guys would know not to hit on me (they still did...so much for that...) and girls would be aware I might hit on them. But now that I'm engaged it doesn't really seem that big a deal...I'm with someone for life, not like I'm gonna go after anyone else.
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Posted: Sun Dec 15, 2013 9:54 am
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Posted: Sun Dec 15, 2013 1:52 pm
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Posted: Sun Dec 15, 2013 7:03 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 17, 2013 6:57 am
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Posted: Tue Dec 17, 2013 5:13 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 17, 2013 5:15 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 17, 2013 7:17 pm
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I'm trans, mtf, and still in the closet. Well, mostly. Ive come out to 4 people, 3 of which barely talked to me anymore afterwards, and they were my best friends.
Im actually considering telling my new best friends tomorrow night when i have them over, because despite knowing them a shorter time i feel closer to them then anyone else ive ever known, if that makes sense? It actually feels wierd to think its been just over a year. But I'm... really nervous about it? Because it was also a year ago i told my former best friends and Im loathe to go through that again. Im also not sure how to word it? Ive never really known how to tell people?
But... erm yes, back on topic, trans, mostly in the closet
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Posted: Tue Dec 17, 2013 8:15 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 17, 2013 8:34 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 17, 2013 11:02 pm
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