Relationship problums

[Maggot4life91]

Ok, on October 3rd my boyfriend and I broke up after a year and 7 months and its been like a month and I want him back. I miss him dearly and I beleive he does to. So do ya'll have any ideas on how to get him back?  

[dreaming_tonight]

Well why did you break up?  

[Maggot4life91]

well sweatdrop i brought up that i thought we were starting to act like just friends, but now that we are just friends we never talk or even look each other in the eye (well i try to talk to him) crying emo cry  

[Exodus2]

well, was he nice to you and stuff, or was he an a**? and be truthful  

[JustAnotherNancyBoy-x]

do nothing...everything that happens happens for a reason, perhaps sooner or later he will miss yoo and want yoo back, but never try to do extra special things just to please him cuz then when yoo have him and stop doing these things he will remeber why yoo broke up in the first place. it may be difficult to do it but i know, i have tryed to win someones love and then when we were back he remember what he didnt like and we split up, only this time it was more disapointing as we were ok when i had changed myself.  

[Maggot4life91]

Exodus2

well, was he nice to you and stuff, or was he an a**? and be truthful

wile we were going out he was very nice to me and he cared a lot about me. now he seem distracted everytime we talk... like it hurts him  

[Angel Bruja]

Acting like friends with the one you date shouldn't be much of a big deal since it could mean you're both comfortable with one anohter. You could try to talk to him about getting back together if you wanted.  

[-Isel-]

Give up-

You'll just break up with him again in the future.  

[DJ Database]

You should just try to move on. I had a really bad relationship problem that I ended today (In my Journal) that was sad but Im getting over it pretty easy i still feel really lonely though  

[Exodus2]

Maggot4life91

Exodus2

well, was he nice to you and stuff, or was he an a**? and be truthful

wile we were going out he was very nice to me and he cared a lot about me. now he seem distracted everytime we talk... like it hurts him

he either still cares for you or feels ashamed for something he did  

[91_green bottles]

Maggot4life91

Exodus2

well, was he nice to you and stuff, or was he an a**? and be truthful

wile we were going out he was very nice to me and he cared a lot about me. now he seem distracted everytime we talk... like it hurts him

Then maybe he wants you back to. Besies, these things are usually better out in the open, rather than eating away at you from the inside out. Talk to him about it.  

[xdemonicallyxyours13x]

Two Words : s**t HAPPENS

 

[chinagrl777]

aw f** him, you dont need a man (china might be speaking for herself....)

being single and open to flirt with everyone is better ^^  

[LAAG]

If you want him back, talk to him about it, see how he feels. See if getting back together would be a option.  

[The Black Rose of theDark]

You should call him up one day and talk it over with him. You shouldn't hide your love for a person. it will make thinks just more complex than what they really are. If you tell him the truth(I hate using that ******** word) he might understand or he might not. That is the think about love. You have to be ready to take a risk at any moment in time. Yeah it would be good if he comes around first but wouldn't it be better to tell him yourself instead of torturing yourself about the situation and complaining about how much you want him back. Yeah you guys are more than likely break up. ******** everyone knows that it is just a matter of time but you should uses that time to try to prove everyone wrong . That is all I am saying.