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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 5:53 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 6:18 pm
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Yeah, it is, but, while it is horrible, it's probably not correct to say as a reason, especially if you probably never had an idea of it being "wrong." People that know they are abused tend to dwell on it and know that it makes them feel "unclean" or "dirty," even if they're not sure of why. No one can really say why they are the way they are except that environment has a lot to do with it. You can't put it on just one thing. I'm not trying to sound mean or anything, but it sounds kinda of like you're making an excuse.
Just remember, everyone goes through hardships, and think of the good, not the bad. I know those are really common statements, but they are true.
Also, you control your life. You can make anything seem one way or another if you just put your mind to it.
How about you try talking your girlfriend, or say a few jokes to make her laugh? Getting her a gift on an ordinary day that's not an occasion makes some girls feel special. It's like saying, "I don't need them to remind me that I like you."
You can show your parents everything you've done right. You can even use their disapproval for failure as way to do better.
Hell, you can just try to improve on the little things you do, too. Like: opening the door for your friends and strangers; saying "Thanks," and "Your welcome;" trying to help others out (physically and/or mentally); etc.
You can also pick up a hobby. Many people go into the arts or sports.
While this may seem like a lot, I never said you had to do all of it. You don't have to do any of it if you don't want to. This is just some words of advice, by your request, that I have seen that do tend to work.
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 6:21 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 6:26 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 6:40 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 7:21 pm
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Nazo no Kanjojin I was recently informed that my exposure to pornography at an early age is the equivalent to molestation. Now I know why I am messed up. I'm going emo, but I've almost lost 2 friends in teh process. I don't know what else to do...my girlfriend is ignoring me (it seems), my parents are harping on my failures, I'm messy and...gah! I just wanna explode sometimes, but I can't. Someone please help me? crying
That's laughable. Looking at porn as a kid, qualifying as molestation? So you saw a picture of some genitals, it's not really ever going to screw you up.
Sounds like what you're going through is typical teen angst, and if I do say so myself, it sounds like junior-high frivolous pseudo-problems.
If "going emo" is causing you to lose friends, then stop. Following a scene is a personal choice. So your girlfriend is ignoring you, why don't you try to fix it? All parents harp on failures. I've got straight A's because of mine, and I'm a busted-up drug addict, I think you've got a lot more going for you.
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 7:33 pm
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 2:57 am
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 1:51 pm
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 2:18 pm
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 3:14 pm
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Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 3:38 pm
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