So I've got this problem.

[EtoilexShizumaxHanazono]

I guess I'll take a dive.
and be the first to post a problem.
it's nothing big.
but. . .
ok my parents cant accept my style.
and nor can my friends.
I dress oddly.
No. I'm not scene.
emo.
goth.
ska or w.e.

just I dress basicly like all of those combined.
it's my way.
and I cant get to realize. I'm still me.
under the clothes.


any suggestions? stressed  

[Zealous Blue]

My dad doesn't like that I have blue hair.

I just ignore him. 3nodding

As for your friends, well, I'm sorry. >>;; Maybe you should ask them why they don't accept your style.  

[the_Crimson_Bolshevik]

could you post a pic. it would be easier to see what you meen if you do.  

[EtoilexShizumaxHanazono]

ah.
I dont have a camera. sweatdrop
ah yeah its impossible to ignore my dad.
I dyed my hair black with red tips..
they kicked me out of the house for a month till I dyed it..
basicly theres no creative style allowed.  

[Killer Zeit]

They kicked you out? neutral

I would love it if my kid had a mind of their own and was creative.
Hm... I say you sit and talk with them about how you dress, and tell them... to their faces... you're still their daughter underneath your clothes. And remind them that you could have done something 10x worse than dying your hair red tips. Hair can always be changed. But if you, like, went out and did drugs, smoked, had sex all over the place, got a tattoo... (not saying never get a tattoo, but...)

I mean, my mom lets me dress how I want to and lets my dye my hair whatever color I want and buy the jewelry I want, but she would NEVER, EVER, EVER let me get a mohawk. Or chop off my hair a certain way.

So there are certain places where parents draw the line and I think you need to ask them where that line is. I'm sure you dress cute, but I suppose the other option is to wait until you move out... then, you can dye your hair whatever you want, dress how you like, and be one of the best Suicide Girls ever.

"Mom, dad, I have a steady career!" ;D
But, really, talk with them. Maybe they think you're secretly suicidal or something. Sometimes parents have no idea what's going on.  

[EtoilexShizumaxHanazono]

wow.
everything you just said.
I agree with.
[it's not usual for me to agree to those things]
I think I'll stick to the moving out part.
like my sister did.
maybe I can have any color hair I want some day! lol.
xd  

[Killer Zeit]

horrorxlovely

wow.
everything you just said.
I agree with.
[it's not usual for me to agree to those things]
I think I'll stick to the moving out part.
like my sister did.
maybe I can have any color hair I want some day! lol.
xd

Yeah, when my sister moved out, she moved to Nebraska (from California) for college, cut her hair SHORT, and dyed it, and became a tattoo artist. xDDD

Soooo...  

[EtoilexShizumaxHanazono]

Zeit Rachen Havoc

horrorxlovely

wow.
everything you just said.
I agree with.
[it's not usual for me to agree to those things]
I think I'll stick to the moving out part.
like my sister did.
maybe I can have any color hair I want some day! lol.
xd

Yeah, when my sister moved out, she moved to Nebraska (from California) for college, cut her hair SHORT, and dyed it, and became a tattoo artist. xDDD

Soooo...

ah thats awsome. my sister moved from SC to MA.cut her hair short.dyed it many times.got many tattoos.and many piercings. xd  

[queenotheworld]

my parents have fear of skulls which kinda sucks cause i have like 6 shirts that are basically covered with them

i just kinda explained to them that its my style and that there are worse things in the world then wearing skulls, and it worked.
its kinda funny, they don't have a problem with anything else, just the skulls.
but kicking you out? thats really harsh...  

[EtoilexShizumaxHanazono]

heh yeah.
they're not very openminded towards me.
they think I'll end up like my sister.
spoiled.tattoos and piercings.
even though she has genious* iq.
and I love tattos.
piercings are cool.
but not a fan of needles. lol
but yeah. they just didnt want me around for a month I guess. sweatdrop  

[CHicKeNy Corpse]

Zealous Blue

My dad doesn't like that I have blue hair.

I just ignore him. 3nodding

As for your friends, well, I'm sorry. >>;; Maybe you should ask them why they don't accept your style.

A girl at my school has blond, blue and orange hair. It totally rocks.  

[onocows]

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