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what do you mean you have been deemed officially ugly????
YOU ARE NOT UGLY!!!
sad
if anybody thinks your ugly, its just because their jealous they cant have everything you do.
you are amazing
i love you stephen!!!

Some one said this to me:
"Every time your name comes up in a conversation everyone says that your ugly and stuff"

well who said that?
sad

I am not telling. You have no idea how many people have asked me that question. Kayla thinks that whoever said it should suck a big c**k and choke on it.

i know.
i saw her bulliton.

People who would call you ugly are asses.
Anytime the subject of you has come up in the past and people around me said they found you unattractive I have always told them I disagreed with them.

I have always made it clear that while they might not fancy your style, there are plenty of people that do. People should not go around calling people ugly and such things, everyone is different and everyone has their own styles and such.

They have a right to their opinion but they don't have to be jerks about it. I personally think that you shouldn't give these mean people any power over how you look. Especially when you have such good people like Andrea that love you for everything that you are and accept you just as you are right at this moment.

Now I'm going to answer your questions because you seem like you really really want answers, but I really don't think you should change anything about yourself for anyone but yourself. Don't go changing for others. Especially cruel people that say mean things about you.

Should I cut my hair? If so how short?
No! sweatdrop I really like long hair on guys, but that's just me. Do what you want.


Should I shave? If so moustache and beard?(not much going yet)
I've found that this is a question best for the girlfriend/wife of a guy because they are pretty much the most effected by it(just the way it feels and stuff while kissing). Some girls like it, some girls can't stand it.


Should I keep my hair curly(natural), or straighten it?
I think that curly looks good, I mean there are hardly any curly-haired people these days! And if you want to you can always just straighten it temporarily or whatever to test out what you personally would like better.


How much weight should I lose? I weighed 165 pounds a year ago, now I am somewhere between 140-145.
You don't need to lose weight...You're a guy...Come on man.


Should I work out more? In other words reasonable muscles, nothing at all, or ripped?
I can't really strike against exercise...exercise is good. But dude, don't go trying to get all buff for anyone other than yourself. You are the one person that you have complete control over, if you rely on others to tell you how you should live your life then what's the point??


Have you any clothing/style advice for me?
ERm, erm, no white after labor day..no black belts with brown shoes, or wait! was no brown belts with black shoes? lol, don't worry about it man! Wear what is most comfortable and most appealing to you.


Don't get stressed out by the peanut gallery dude! You don't need to take crap from stupid peeps, you don't have to change for them! What have you always wanted to look like? If you were to say that you always wanted to have pink hair and wear polka-dotted shoes ever since you were little (like that was the style of your dreams! ) then I would support you fully, 'kay? There will always be the overly critical people that need to get punched in the face, over your shoulder or behind your back telling you how to live and fit into their standards.
But don't forget that no matter what (and I mean this) there will always be people that dig your style and think you're awesome. So why don't you cater to the people that get you, instead of those others that think it's alright to put people down?

omg, sorry for the little novella! sweatdrop Got to be a little long! There's a book signing on Thursday, lol! There will be free refreshments in the lobby. rofl

I don't mind it being a bit long. I don't mind at all. I just want some honest advice, but no one seems to want to give it to me. Only you and Ronni have been willing to help me out.

..... Why is that when I used to worry about being embarrassed, you would tell me to not worry about what others would think? Probably because it's not healthy. Here's some advice: Change whatever you want to change. Don't worry about your physical appearance. You don't want to look disgusting so keep showering, brushing, etc. Not eating enough is... not healthy, but of course, eating as much as an average American isn't either. Exercise is important. But do it to prevent your life from being shortened.
I think you are beautiful. sort of a weird thing to say to another guy... From now on, only worry about what I think of you. If you ever don't know what to think about something that has to do with you, just ask me and I will tell you what to think.

really, you shouldnt worry what others will think.
just look at kevins avi
its wearing a freakin skirt for cryin out loud.
besides.
you look amazing.
and i can garantee there are people who look far worse than you.
just look at kelcie's mustache.
@,@

yes andrea!!!!

i just hope she doesnt read this

i doubt she will
haha
'twould be funny if she did though

Woah! I will post here, even if you don't read it.

I have been officially deemed ugly.-Lol, who could say that about teh amazing Shenkai?!

Should I cut my hair? If so how short?-Lol, no cutting hair s for n00bs.

Should I shave? If so moustache and beard?(not much going yet)-Do whatever you want, silly question.

Should I keep my hair curly(natural), or straighten it?-Curly is good, you would be a good drummer liek that. Make it straight if you want though, you would look liek a funny kid.

How much weight should I lose? I weighed 165 pounds a year ago, now I am somewhere between 140-145.-Whatever makes you feel more beastly is best.

Should I work out more? In other words reasonable muscles, nothing at all, or ripped?-Whatever makes you feel more beastly is best.


Have you any clothing/style advice for me?-Halo 3 t-shirts rape, so keep equipping them, =)

Just keep pwning liek you appear to to me, and I would liek if you would game a bit more with me, which you can after you get your Xbox 360 again.

-Endar Telvanni

Ok, somehow that got double posted.

Hi.

hey i never called you ugly!!!
i was uhh it was so long ago i dont even remember
i think it was chealsey komarak
i really dont think i spelt that right
but i didnt say it!!!