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Allow me to say: DAMN eek no wonder she doesn't want to talk to you for one thing, when i was reading all this rumpous, you did in fact make her look like someone so....just pity out of pity along that line.
and you know I don't think she will appreciate you putting up private conversations like this within a journal for all to see.

it seems like you two did talk it over and look this is the result sweatdrop sweatdrop

i'm going to put my say in this, please do not talk about seri in that way ever again. she is a kind person she always put her friends before herself, for one thing she never dumps messages like these and show it to the whole freaken world to see.

and trust me trust me!! SHE WILL NEVER EVER CALL HER FREIENDS WEAK OR A PEASANTLY COWARD LIKE YOU DO

boy was I wrong about you just when i thought we were understanding each other there you bad mouthing my friend.

just no, just no thats not how things are done here. confused

I don't see any insincerity here...I see brutal honesty. Bluntness.

Some people, I know I am one of them, are not cheerful all the time, and have issues to deal with. Be careful in judging someone as "emo" when they are really just going through a rough spot in their lives. You'll probably call ME emo one of these days, and if you do, I'm going to tell you that sorry, I can't be happy right now.
I have low confidence and low self-esteem. I'm working on it, and the rest of my issues.

Your words were just harsh...PEOPLE CANNOT JUST 'SNAP OUT OF IT.'

I'm sorry. You went too far.

I don't run away from my problems. I deal with them as best I can, because if I don't, they will consume me.

Seri is a sensitive person, and to be honest, sometimes I think she is too sensitive. I don't get all this 'insincerity' stuff she talks about. I tried to explain, and she told me she already knew that, and I was misinterpreting things.
But she didn't tell me HOW.

So in the end, I give up. I think you are both in the wrong, and I have tried to be neutral. But in the end, you both have your faults. Try to overcome them.
Because I am so sick and tired of all of this. You complain about her, she complains about you, and I do not want to hear it anymore.

I may just be through with both of you, though I would like to remain friends with both of you.

I know I probably shouldn't say anything, but I want to. Look, Laura, not everyone on the face of this Earth can "just deal with it" like you say you can. There are plenty of sensitive people that tend to cry a lot about their problems. That doesn't mean they are cowards. These same people can also realize that they can stop crying and move on. It just takes a while for some. And like you've never cried before because you're sad or angry? It's natural. It's one of the things that makes us human.

And don't call Seri emo. EVER. She's just sensitive, like me, or anyone else that I know is like that. Emo people are posers, and Cynthia's nothing like that.

Lastly, I'm sorry... that you think that you're so much better that her because you can "just deal with it." I'm sorry that you seem so conceited.

I can finally, see this blessed entry. I can finally have my say in this. Shall I explain myself?

-Crying, feeling unwanted, sadness, is a general emotion response within a human being. It is not because they are cowardly. It does -not- make a person a coward.
Response: If you think that, perhaps you need to figure out how it important to feel these things. Without these feelings, we would not know love or pain.

-Not wanting to face problems, or talk about them is very common. Sometimes, people do not wish to get involved others. Because sometimes they are afraid, to bother someone with their ordeals, and frustrations. Though, in some cases someone would be interested in being that support, and helping out a person indeed.
Response: If you find it annoying of me to bottle things up, well take a look at what happened now. You not only, made public this personal and PRIVATE message, but you also got two of my best friends involved. And so, you succeeded at having one of them wanting to be "through" with me.

-I can deal with bluntness, and honesty. When I am out of it, people my friends tell me like it is. But they don't within the same sentence insult me.
Response: If they did, it would be indeed a cruel world. Not a true friend either.

Into a conclusion, this is something so little that you made into a big deal. I was quiet about this, in the beginning I defended you when people said you were rude.
But now, I was wrong in doing so, because that rudeness was turned on me.

confused I don't appreciate you doing so. I don't appreciate you giving my friends ideas, of who I am, or what you think I am, I don't appreciate you frustrating my friends making them tired of me because of all of this.

Current feelings? I feel very down, that I let my friends feel frustrated.
But I feel relieved. I am not mad at you, I am not mad at anyone.

I just want you to stop talking behind my back, bringing people into this. This is done with. I hate hearing the people who had to hear this, say they are in the middle of it when obviously, they are not. Because, this has been dealt with. I guess Laura you need to deal with this yourself now.

This is so amusing. My profile is now private thank you.

Oh dear. Your profile is on private. It's the end of the world. And what, pray tell, is so amusing?