1. Communication It's the fundamental foundation for relationships. If you wish to build a strong one with the boy you fancy, be sure to:
- Call him often and talk to him for hours at a time. It lets him know that he is your everything. Does he have homework? A test to study for? Does he need to care for his sick parents or look after his siblings? Tough! You're trying to build a relationship here! Nevermind what other relationships of his you may damage to facilitate your own.
- Ask him what he's thinking ... constantly. When he's eating, when he's trying to sleep, when he's driving, when he's reading. It's important for him to realize that his words matter to you!
2. Mystery
A guy likes a girl who is mysterious. It is intriguing for a guy to figure out something else wonderful about the girl through the process and not all at one time. It is surprising and keeps him from getting bored.
So, next time he asks you what's wrong, tell him "nothing" and don't let him know if he's upset you somehow. Anyway, as the man you love, he should instinctively know anyhow.
This advice seems to conflict with communication, doesn't it? Worry not! Your behavior does not need to have any rational basis behind it. It's what you feel, not what makes sense.
3. Take care of him
Men like to be taken care of just as much as women do. They are often drawn to women that remind them of dear old Mom.
4. Your ex-boyfriend
Be sure to mention him often. Men love it when they are compared to other men.
5. Appreciate him
Can he change a tire? Chew gum and walk? Well let him know that he's so talented! Remember, men just love to be praised.
Micro-manage his every move. Guys love it when women act possessive. Ask him where he's been. Why hasn't he called you? Who was that girl at the cash register?
6. Make him feel needed
This can be accomplished through a number of ways:
Feign weakness. That jar is just sealed too tight for your limp wrists to open! Let the big, strong man do it for you and be sure express appreciation for his big, strong hands. Other objects include doors (the opening there-of), boxes, crates, and furniture. It will make his day.
7. Feign Ignorance
Guys hate it when girls are as smart as or smarter than them; it makes them feel inferior. Men need to feel in charge, so let him make all the decisions. Have him order both your meals, have him plan the activities, and let him set the pace of your relationship. Remember, only spinsters think!