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OMFG!! I am so in trouble!!

I met a guy in a billiard bar place... and i thought he was nice. He asked for my phone number and all that and like a stupid idiot i am, i gave it to him.

I went out on a date with him on Thursday... even though my leg hurt like hell to walk on... i still went out because i tend to give any guy that asks me out a chance... i did and quite enjoyed myself. <--- pretty normal since i tend to enjoy my outing with any guy.

Anyways... i let him walk me home since it hurt way too much and i leaned most of my weigh on him... and i ... well made the first move. Only because i know i can and well lets just say i played like an Enchanting Seductress successfully. And no we didn't do the deed. >_>

We talked a lot, trying to get to know him and was still being the self-free uncaring girl that i am and let him cling to me. I TOLD him straight that i was not the type of girl that gets serious and nor was i looking for anything. But i still played the part ES pretty friken well because....

Okay... today Saturday... well Sunday at 3:00am he came and visited me telling me how much he missed me. Telling me sweet words... smooth words, even though i don't believe in it, it still felt good to hear it. Anyways... i went to a party and i warned him that i'd be doing my stuff... (ie grinding and flirting with guys) and well he said "Be a good girl" My reply "I'll try" And when he asked... and i told him the truth he was really silent and tells me "I am really worried about you" and he really missed me and wanted to see me. I said NO but he didn't listen and showed up right in front of my door at 3:02am... i met up with him and he went straight for my body. He smelled and tasted of beer and tobacco. I pushed him away and i told him that i didn't want to see him any longer. He GRIPPED me really tight on my arm as if he didn't want me to disappear. I panicked inside... alarms were ringing in my head and while looking at his bloodshot eyes i tried not to show how much he was scaring me. I repeated again that i didn't want to continue anymore. And tried to step away... again he gripped me hard but i brushed it off and tried to reason with him... but he was all too strong for me. I just agreed out of fear and we were alone... i was afraid if i didn't say "Yes, i'll meet you again tomorrow" i would not be here.
RAPE is not what im scared of, its the thought that i'd be in the hands of a maniac who was very FOND of me and possessive. And of course the PAIN of death... rape is nothing... i can endure that much and still not be traumatized... its not the worst thing at all.
He'll be picking me up tomorrow after my work... and i am quite defenseless since im pretty small and cannot even walk or run due to the pain in my left knee.

He tells me he is sorry and that he'll change. Just one more chance is what he says... and i don't feel the same way anymore... i feel like hes manipulating me... something i never saw before... and that he tells me I am cute, pretty and beautiful and that he really cares for me. To keep me within his reach. Its not the pretty words that i trust its how i thought he meant it with sincerity. Now i realized it was something of a motive... I trust men... but i really don't care because i play along... not really serious with any... but this guy deceived me... and i am really scared... i can see through his disguised when i couldn't see it before.