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If you've ever been curious about how to tell if your girl/guy is cheating, here are a few. This isn't fool proof but its what I've seen in the past. I hate cheaters with a passion so I'd love if this little thread helps catch a b*****d or b***h.

[ Hints ]

[1]- Take notice to tiny changes in behavior, maybe their a little peppier than usual, maybe their a little edgy and hiding some thing. (but that's obvious)

[2]- Huge warning sign is clinginess, If their suddenly abnormally close to you or wanting to spend allot more time with you than usual. This is a sign of cover for some thing they may b e trying to hide.

[3]- Lack of sexual contact can mean that they might be getting their fill or better some where else.

[4]- If they say there some where... lets say a friends house, and your starting to suspect infidelity, hold onto... a wallet... a purse... a phone and use it as an excuse to bring it to them at said subjects location, if he's not their that means he/she is some where they don't want you to know about.

[5]- Look into a new hang out they might be obsessed with, if they become sketchy towards info about the hang out... it might be an affair.

[6]- Look out for suspicious texting or phone calls that they are purposely avoiding you when they reply

[ Traps ]

Having some one follow your spouse 24/7 is stupid and some times a waist of time and or money so here are some easy tricks to nab em'

[1]- (Regarding #5) Lead them to believe you'll be at a little hang out of your ownfor a bit, follow and expose.

[2]- Durring sex go wild, entice them into possibly yelling or moaning "The Other"'s name (Hey if it fails, maybe they'll loose the need for the other guy/girl)

[3]- Hey, asking couldn't hurt, it might hurt like hell to get a confession but it would hurt worst to be broken up with for no reason only to be left for another.

[4]- (regarding #6) Pilfer their phone at a ridiculously random phone and rifle through the messages, pictures, and recent calls.

[5]- Give them a chance to cheat, tell them your going to be gone for the week end, at a friends house or with family, be smart, make it so they know... they can have chance, Have a tail follow them and see if their cheating and expose.