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Butting into a conversation, depending on who or what, is annoying. If you are simply wanting to make friends and notice someone talking about something that interests you, that's fine. However, when you suddenly come into a conversation between people, i think it's better to be polite if you just want to talk.

Unfortunatly, this was inspired by a b***h on towns who seems to want to butt into every conversation I have, usually changing the subject to something about her. My first encounter with this person, I was trying to be-friend someone and making small talk.

Subject change was to how she's cheating on her boyfriend but he "knows" about it. I don't trust first impressions due to the lack of caring people usually have when they first meet you. So I let it go, thinking maybe they're just really good friends. Shortly after that, I met her again. I come into towns, she spots me and says "wow this place has a lot more faggots than before. i'm out."

I personally don't know if she was talking about me so again, i let it slide. The third, final strike, was recently. A friend and I were talking about how ******** up people are in situations where other people need help. She comes over, stands on top of us as we are discussing child-rape and laughs.

So, this pisses me off because of two reasons. 1. She's trying to look "bad a**" in front of someone and 2. she laughed at a child being raped. Though I lack children of my own but I do babysit for my neighborhood causing me to have a bit of a motherly instinct.

Well.. I call her out on her s**t and her only reply is "idiot." I feel sorry for people who feel the need to butt into conversations to get attention. It's understandable if you were in the conversation and were being slightly ignored. Basically, this goes hand-in-hand with my earlier post for sluts/attention-whores. I do think that something happened in her childhood, or didn't, that she needed. Maybe a good spanking when she was younger or just a hug and "i love you". Either way, I hope this girl grows the ******** up.


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Stalking. I'm recently worried about a stalking case.. There's this user who has been on my profile, quiet a few times, yet hasn't talked to me. Maybe its a coincidence, maybe she also reads my journal.

Either way, it scares me a little that someone wouldn't drop by a comment or message if they had something to say. Stalking in the real world though, it's pretty scary. I have never had that problem but I do know of a teacher that was suspended from teaching after he was caught by one of his student's parents stalking her.

If the girl is reading my journal, I'm sorry for accusing you of stalking me but I find it slightly creepy. I find a lot of things creepy that aren't but that's just me.