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just Andeh.
Pinkard's theory pt2
OK so I'd like to introduce to you Pinkard's theory of existentialism in long distance romances of the 21st century


if a person cares For someone a lot and they thinking of the person i wonder if their feelings can be sent to them in form of random thoughts of said person.

One person who I will call T.A.S asked "Oh, like psychic messages?" to which i replied.

more along the lines of sending emotional frequencies to one another.a low level of psionics only active when the mind suffers from the metal disability of love. since it has been proved a mind in love thinks the same way as a mind that is certifiably insane.

A certain T.A.S continued "So two people in love, the feeling or bond is very strong? Like a family pet returning to its owners across long distances?"

i would believe so. if its not lust and truly love.

i remember once reading of an orphaned child who when a young adult grew very attached to an older lady, the two became inseparable almost like bestfriends . it was later discovered that the elderly woman was in fact her biological mother and neither of them even knew it

"Not exactly scientifically proveable, but I can understand the idea behind it." - T.A.S

well telepathy isn't scientifically provable. either not "realistically" at least. for example . a while back when i thought of jecca(my most reccent gf who i haven't had contact with in 2 months) id get worried and all emotional wreck like . for the past few weeks shes popped in my head in the randomest of times and the only feelings i get would be the emotional equivalent to being embraced. it was warm a diff feeling.

T.A.S says The logical route of proving this would be to watch the two of you and see what happens.

so I'll be keeping a log of things from now on.


L

Well, I've had it happen where me and my current girlfriend get headaches at the same time, sniffles, etc, little problems witht health like that. It's a little odd, she always says it's because we're connected, I say it's just coincidence. While I believe it's a nice thought I don't think two people who just met can have that kind of connection (not just met like 2 days, I mean like, they only know each other, not brother or anything).

The thing about a mother/child is very different if you ask me, while they can be seperated, there are often very large similarities that can make a bonde between them which would make it seem like a psychic connection. I do not however believe in a real psychic connection, if you could prove it to me, such as knowing how a person is feeling at any given time, then I would. But I simply lack the evidence in my face to actually think that it's possible. I think you can make a connection on an emotional level, but only if you're in the same room as that person, not if you're hundreds of miles away. Maybe you think you did, but unless the person calls you up and is like "I was just thinking of you being hugged by me, didja get my feeling?" then I won't believe it as anything but your mind creating what you want.

On to that, the mind is a powerful thing, you can make yourself think that you're actually sick when you're not, even to the point where body parts don't work. If both people in a relationship believe it enough, they could probably fool themselves into thinking that when one is sad, that they were too at that time. Maybe yesterday they were not unhappy, but the other was, when told this, the other will immediatley think of all the negative things yesterday, and fool themselves into thinking that they actually had a really shitty day.


But it doesnt explain thibnsg really. see ive already moved on and am actually sorta envolved with another. when said thoughst popped in my head. im not saying sending emotional actions across to people im sayiong you think of someone so much in your heart that it sends liek a frequency that triggers a random thought of said person. simmilar to how when you feel for some reason you should call someoen your close to. and when u finally do you find out their in trpouble of some sort its liek their heart wa sreaching out towards you. its not a voluntary action.

Amyldor

Well, though your feeling it through your heart and not your mind, technically it would both be the brain, since your heart is just a vital organ, but your brain is where it all processes. When your emotionally sad though, you feel it in your chest, but does that mean its your heart. I don't know exactly but I see when people speak of the heart its sort of a metaphor, but I understand completely. Its thought that anything thats either a psychic connection or seems like a psychic connection, means that each person must have a bond, either if its a loved one, a family member, or your twin, what is a bond? Is it, that you have many things in common, you like that person and you've spent many years with that person or talking to that person. Or is it that you are and you love that person rather then being close to them as a position but you love that person for being that person. Maybe thats what has your heart being connected, and by heart being connected I mean your mind, which could also mean your soul and brain. Remember it is SAID that the human brain uses only 10% of their minds, who knows if thats true but if so, we have a lot to discover, so keep an open mind.

Like a scientist, you actually can't DISPROVE that mermaids do not exist. (Not saying I believe in them.) But, the earth is made up of 75% of water, have we actually searched every 1% of that 75% to search for that mermaid, if we have then we can officially disprove that.


no your tehone failing here, sorry chap

thsi is talking about recieving emotions inteh form of random un expected thoughts . for example lets say i miss someoen a lot and am thinking of them with all my heart. they could ve doing something of vast importnace and not even be thinking of me . but they will recieve a warm emotion in them and that would trigger teh thought of me.

I think this is a bond quite diff that teh family oen most peopel know about. but mauy share troots in teh feelings part of teh brain as opposed to teh thinking part or logisistics part. let me share comments i recieved oin a different board.



bell
I believe in it. And I believe it's more than romantic love feelings.

I have an innate sense of when my sister's feeling down or has gotten hurt, and it has yet to fail me. I love her, but not like I lurve her. I have strong feelings for her, and sometimes I feel "random thoughts" of her and call her up, and at the same time, she's already dialing my number. We have that connection.

Now, for romantic love. I was separated by a ******** ocean from my Bradley baby and I would feel embraced by him though he was not there, I would wake up in teh middle of the night, just moments before the phone rang from him, and I even called him once to find out he was sitting in Books A Million (the place we met) while I was an ocean away, doing just the same thing.


That is exactly teh priinciple for this theory. I aleays felt family hasd strong connections but never thought peopel intimate did. but one starts to think, if two peopel share a bond how close can they be before the gain this link ? And if family can send such "frequencies" why canyt lovers. are they not ofshoots of family?

Moonchylde

me and my girl have a connection like that, though we're only a few cities apart. When she had her miscarriage, I was at work, but I knew something wasn't right. I don't really know how else to explain it. By the time I got the message, I was a wreck and was giving everyone the creeps. During her recovery, I would often go to sleep worrying about her (I work a 12 hour night shift, and we don't live together, so I wasn't with her as much as I'd like), and dream that I was with her in her room, checking on her. Imagine my surprise when she told me she'd seen me in her room that night, and that I dissapeared after she said I was ok. Belive me or don't, it doesn't matter, because it did happen. Beyond the crazy s**t, we always know when one or the other is feeling down; it's pretty much a guarantee that the phone will ring within minutes. She always knows when I'm coming over; I've tried to surprise her many times, only to find her out on the front porch waiting for me. When she's feeling bad or sad or any other "ad" word, I always know. It's weird, but it works.

It's kinda like that song by Golden Earring (and I'm surprised no one else mentioned this...), "Radar Love":

I've been driving all night, my hands wet on the wheel/
and there's a voice in my head that drives my heels/
it's my baby calling, says "I need you here!"/
and it's a half past four, and I'm shifting gears.

Yeah... that's the good s**t.



See this is what im talking ablout its liek alink formed between two people who truly feel enamoured by eachother in teh highest degree.

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Please leave your thoughts or opinions.

All points will be brought into my research





 
 
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