Okay someone has got to tell me why being bi is so hard and confusing. I just don't understand what is up with the human mind these days. I am the only bi chick I know. Most of them are just lesbian or straight. And I'm not bashing on them its just hard sometimes. And it wouldn't be so bad if I had been with a girl at least once. But I've never had the previlige of having a girlfriend. I'm not sure it would work but I would at least try. i guess I'm not good enough. I've had crushes on a lot of girls. Now true only two of them know. One is straight and the other one is in a relationship that makes her happy. I do have a crush on one other girl a lot but she isn't bi or gay and I'm too scared to tell her. I've hitted at it but that's it. Then it gets more confusing cause I also have a crush on this guy who is two yrs younger than me but so amazing. But he doesnt' know how I feel and I don't think he would be with me. I've known him for like 4 or 5 yrs now, but still. I just wish I knew how to tell either of them or get reed of these feels or have a chance with one girl. Just something to help me get these thoughts out of my head and help me stop stressing.
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And people who claim they are bi, are just that way because they can't or dont want to settle on which gender they like, because they want to be able to date anyone, and/or everyone.
And girls are affectionate, emotional, and social creatures, that like attention ALOT.
So theres more "bi-sexuals" in that gender because they confuse themselves with their emotions when they feel like they've gotten to like one of their girl friends more than they should, or because they can't keep in a relationship with a guy and it gets them depressed.
They know they can have free sex with a girl all they want and they wont get pregnant or anything else nasty like that, and they know that two girls "doing it" arouses the guys, thus showering more attention on them.
Its a subconsious thing that alot of loose minded girls do, and they dont even know their doing it.
My advice....Stop thinking about sex with other people, and what "sexuality" you are and concentrate on being a good example for your daughter, and raising her instead of worrying about being in a relasionship. once you have a kid, its too late, and you've got bigger things to worry about than high school crushes, day dreaming, and flirting all day long.