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Dear Lanzer,

I'm happy for you because Gaia is very big now but i'm sure as you now there are probelms with that. I understand you must be VERY busy but please read this.

For one i'd like to talk to you about the PG-13 rule of this site. My sig got blocked because i said something about it advertising an rp that's above PG - 13 level or something along that line. Now that's not the probelm. I understand that part but what i don't understand is that if my sig got blocked for saying something about yaoi, yuri ,and hentai why are there so many mature posts in the forums? I'll show you what i mean.

This is my former sig:
"I mostly want someone that can play Kakashi, Iruka ,or Tsunade VERY well. You must but flexible ,creative, open-minded and eventful with the rp. It has alil of everything. Action, romantic ,drama...that's how i do it. You have to able to play all the characters well but MAIN the 3 up there. NO ONELINERS! Grammar and spelling don't have to be perfect but at least be readable and no chatspeak in the rps. PEOPLE THAT KNOW ENGLISH ONLY! I'm not rasict but people that don't know what i'm typing and i don't know what they're typing...what's the point? You must accept yoai, yuri, OR hentai to rp with me. Contact me if youre intrested. I only roleplay over AIM and MSNIM."

Now, as a PG-13 site i may know that youre thinking. "You're showing you want a sexual roleplay...etc." and you're correct. As you can CLEARLY see i'm not asking for you over Gaia if you look at the end of that message. Thus it has mostly nothing to do with Gaia except for inviting people to roleplay with me but over a different place then this.

Now i will link you to a few posts and i think you'll understand what i mean. Also that in the way people are treating each other here and look at other peoples sigs. You don't really seem to do other things then post some announsments but not really "in" the site.

http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=18522903
http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=18830711
http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=18824287
http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=18571601
http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=18823967
http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=18812017

I don't think i need to go on but there mostly in the General Discussion ,Life Issues ,and Chatter box but the point is it's not very "pg-13 or friendly ,welcoming things to others ,now is it? As you may see some of the topics aren't bad but the way people are reacting is VERY inapproperate.

I can guess what's next. "We cant change the way people are and the way they react or post." That's mostly with i would say if i where the abmin/creator of a popular site. No, you can't. That's not what i'm looking for to do becase it's impossilbe. What i do look for is if you're gonna the block and ban things then close the posts aswell. I see where one abmin said the report thepost and don't reply to them ( http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=7714486 ) ,but the people on Gaia don't seem to under that. If you give them something (gold) to do something (post) they'll do it ,regraudless (of what people that don't seem to be around much say).

The wide population of people here are very rude and running our good, decent members away, is what i think. This is very big now but there's no point to a popular place if all the people are so you you can hardly enjoy it. I know... "I can't the characters of people". True euongh but when you don't take attack (like it was taking on my sig) it promotes more bad behavior. "We can't catch everyone. We can only get what's reported" is something i might say ( the quotes i put right are ways i would react to this pm i'm sending you ). Well, surf the forums. That's my only reply to that. Close topics and so on. Somethings are ok but when they start turning bad and people start flaming alot (and some topic repeatedly) close them with a reason. Example: "Too much flaming. This topic is closed. Gaia isn't about flaming" or "This is a hateful topic "(agian, something i would put). The "pg-13" label doesn't seem to be much of a good reason in the Life Issues because most L.I.'s aren't very pg-13. That's not the way life is ,and we already know this ,but people flaming others in the L.I. forum and spaming isn't good either ,and i don't it's very welcoming to new comers. The new people will start to act like the others ,and with lack of nice, mature people that will make things worse.

In closing, There's nothing perverted about my old sig. It says only alil something about sex but as you can see from the posts i linked that doesn't seem to really matter compared to what they're doing so i thought my lil sig would be no big deal ,or at least i wouldn't get catch ,and if i did it wouldn't matter. From the looks of these posts i think my sig is the LAST thing that would be on anyone's mind.

P.S.: My new sig is VERY approperate for how i feel and "pg-13" friendly. Don't you agree? smile

P.S.S.: This is a Gaia issue so i am pming you over Gaia about it. If you don't reply...say withen a week i will resend it to you to make sure you get this message. You are the creator of Gaia and i think i am respecting you as such by tell you how i feel in a ..."pg-13" rated manner over Gaia, where i'm displeased.
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I know there's mispelling and all that but i can't quit Gai, just have to lay off alil. There's too much to do here to compeltely quit and never come back unless you left when Gaia didn't have as much as it does now. It's not the site. I love to here! There's so much to do, see, even hear! (I love the new Gaia Towns music! Nice ,cute lil beat! heart ) The people on the site it what's upseting me. The people are disrespectful and greey to each other and because of it the nice people have quit or don't come around often euongh. I'm putting this message here so if he doesn't reply then i can just pm him the link instead of redoing it. stare