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I guess it's because i'm a pervert...or I bother them. I'm really not sure, and I know this thread will be flamed because of TLDR or just the GD in general being complete assholes to people with problems. I'm not really sure. But I have a checkered past when it comes to the GD and this recent delete adds one more black square to the quilt. It kind of hurts, I mean we only met recently but I guess I'm just a bad friend, You know, if my psychologist were here he'd tell me to work on my social relations with people seeing I do have Aspergers Syndrome. And I do admit I haven't really tried all that hard. 99% of my conversations eventually end up being sexual, or they end up in the person deleting me. I mean, if they don't give me an answer I want to my usual questions or the person is taken, I usually just stop talking to them, I use people. I know I do, but I'm not sure if others know. it's kind of upsetting...Because i'll be going to college soon and If I keep acting the way I have been I wont have any friends at all when I get there. I really don't know what to say in this post, I've just been rambling the entire time.. I'm just upset that I lost another friend. I don't think people really know how hard it is being an aspie to be honest, I mean i know it's gonna sound now that i'm saying i'm the victim, and call me a hypocrite if you want, but it is really hard. Or maybe it isnt that hard, I just havent tried. I'm lonely all the time, I don't have any real life friends beyond a handful of people. I basically never leave my house except for school, but i go to a small private school where i'm the only student above 6th grade (i'm in 11th) and I do a homeschool DVD program at the academy. It really does suck, you know? and if you add on the fact I basically use everyone I meet for some sort of sexual fufillment, my pool of friends is basically non existent. I guess I should try not using people...But nobody seems to want to give me the chance, or if they do I fail. I wish I could meet someone that would engage the conversation and keep me interested enough that I don't go off on a tangent about some perverted topic like peeing in the shower or the color of their socks. But Ive had friends like that and it really didn't do much. I just...really don't know what to do anymore. It sucks being alone guys..It really does.