I think that alot of people would think this weird that I am making journel like this, but it is mostly influenced by the fact of my studies in psychology. You probably noticed the my grammar and spelling aren't my strong points. This is so b/c my strong points are in logic and reasoning. I apply such thoughts to my friends frequently. If any of you see this I won't mention your names and I'm sorry if I offend you. One of my friends a girl that I see almost as family. I care for her in the same way, as if she were a sister. Her boyfriend, I can tell, is no good for her. Not to say that he is a bad person. I would never accuse someone, but I do get a cold feeling form him sometimes as if he's very inconciderate of anyone's feelings including his girlfriend's. To make a more psychological analysis, The girl has had a childhood of rejection and lonlyness, so she feels that she needs a companion and attention in her life now. She creates fantasies that will draw attention to herself, unfortunatly her boyfriend feels the same yerning for attention that she does, in turn, this leads to an unforfilled want between both of them and eventually hostility. Because of the girls need for companionship, however, she refuses to leave him and mistakes good friendship for love. The boy, in my opinion, has realized this as I have and wishes to take it for it's worth. The girl is rather stubborn and doesn't want to be told anything bad about her boyfriend. Expect to see other entries including these two. One other friend has become a close friend of mine recently. She is what can be called an unconditional friend. one that is always happy, always able to sacrife for others and never let her friends see her cry. She is trivial to say the least, but it is releaving to have her around at times. If anyone else sees through my eyes it's her. more entries to come
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