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Is There a Reason?
If there is, I want to ... no, I need to know it.

Why do I still love you?
--I honestly don't know. You tease me and say that you still have feelings for me, knowing everything, and yet you remain the way you are; with someone else. I know I messed up. I know I can fix it, and I KNOW YOU STILL LOVE ME. Everyone that knows tells me that I'm stupid, and I don't care if I am or if I'm not. I want you back so much. It's hard to hold back, but I do it because I know you wouldn't want that. Also, I think it would be unfair to your girlfriend.

It's hard to understand what you have until you lose it.

Why do you still love me?
--There isn't a logical reason. But, as many people have told me, you can't fight with logic when it comes to emotion. (I know that now, more than I ever had before. I've been so mean to you, and so hurtful to you that it's no wonder that you ran away from me. I'm really sorry about all the things I did to hurt you, and I can't say that enough. I know there are people out there who can treat you better than I did. I know there are people out there who have the same interests in you as I do. (I'll never believe, however, that someone can love you as much, let alone more than, I do.)

God, if there's a reason why You make me (and I guess him) suffer, than I need to know it. I know that I'm selfish and demanding, and sometimes I go over the edge, but I've worked with You to fix those problems, and now, I hardly ever see those things within myself. Other people also have noticed the change. But now, even with those changes, I have gotten nowhere in my progress to either move on nor to get him back into my life. In fact, I think I might have moved backwards.

So if there is a reason, any reason at all, please tell me why You've stuck him and I between a rock and a hard place. I know I would be a much better girlfriend than last time, but I don't know if I'm what he needs right now. Please, I need answers to these questions because he is what is necessary in my life, even if I am not necessary in his.