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Separation, Moving, Divorce, WTF?!??!?! |
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Okay... so...
The day after graduation until now (June 20): My mom's been apologizing every damn day for "ruining my life", and I frankly don't care because she never got along with my dad anyways. So, why should I feel sad about them... breaking? Is that what you call it? Yeah. . .
They went to a lawyer today... divorce firm... whatever the hell you call it... and are trying to settle all the property. My mom had two choices: 1) Keep the house, let my dad move out, but support him for the rest of his life, or 2) Sell the house with both of my parents moving out and letting my dad keep 95k while she gets the rest <around 185 k, if I did the problem right in my head>.
Not that I care... that much. I'm used to this. In my head, they were always divorced... religiously. Mom's.. Christian... and dad's... God knows what. They always fight over religion (which, in reality, is such a small thing, but they let it seem like a huge deal).
Anyways, I'm going to West. I was supposed to go for 4 years... well, I want to go for 4. But, because of this sudden "change in plan", I can only stay for one. Then... Hawaii. I can't stand it. I've never been there, and I don't want to go. I want to stay in this place I've finally grown to love. I don't want.. a... stepdad.
My dad wants to move to my mom's country (the Philippines) when he retires. And he wants to marry some Filipina lady from his church.
My mom's got her eye on this guy, Leo, who lives in Hawaii. She says he wants the best for me and Jonathan's future. . . He's never even met me before, and I refuse to talk to him via phone or messenger.
I still think both of my parents are crazy. I can't live in Hawaii because I love Cali way too much, but I can't live with my dad because I think he's crazy.
The house has to be sold by September. Can you believe that? And... I gotta live... ... .... away from here. I finally was starting to like this place, too. I won't see Cali for a loooong time if I move. Which, my mom predicts, will be next June. I don't want that.
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(btw I calmly tried to get my mom to let me live with my aunt and uncle for the next 4 years, but she says it isn't possible. So... I'm more pissed than upset.)
RayneTyr · Thu Jun 21, 2007 @ 05:42am · 0 Comments |
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