loss of a loved one

• Artist: bubble_butt_bit-ch92
• Description:
• Date: 10/02/2009
• Tags: loss loved

A death in the family leaves a void that cannot be filled. No one can ever take the place of this individual in the world. We should not try to comfort the family by saying that "it was her time anyway", or, "she was suffering". These may be words of comfort later. However, there must be time to mourn the fact that things will never be the same. One minute she was here and now she is gone. The human mind must be allowed to sit with this reality. Mourning is a necessary part of the human experience. If it is ignored, a general feeling of sadness may pervade the whole family.

Comments

[-The awesome Jordan-]

gawd i hate it when someone says it was her time or she was sufferin,that make me want to cuse them out but i just walk away fast befor i start to cry in front of them,and i liked this alot ^_^

[GAlA Site Assistant 64]

I can totally relate to this! my grandfather(almost to years) and my friend died(4 months ago) and everyone keeps saying it was her/his time, he/she is in a better place now. I just felt like scream, "CAN'T YOU JUST LET ME BE SAD AND CRY IN SILENCE? CAN'T YOU JUST HUG ME AND BE QUIET?" I like this alot.