• sometimes we dont know who we are dateing, we dont know why we are, we stay up...debateing, but we dont think clearly, all we can come up with is "oh we are happy" or oh he is "the one" but turns out he is not the one. We will fall in and out of love we will soon find "the one" and our heart and brain will cordnate. so why do we bother dateing? to see if he/she is "the one"