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My love life...not yours You know what I think? I think people should stop getting into my love life to tell me who I can or can not love. I don't want to sound like I'm ranting, but I probably am. Don't get me wrong, I love my friends, even the ones that try to but into my life to try and make it "Better". I want to live my life the way I want to, and that includes giving my love to a certain guy I am dating. I'm not going to name people because of the fact that if I do, they might start yelling at me or get bad feelings about me. I don't want violence or hostilities among my friends, all of them are to important to me. Including the ones I haven't spoken to, currently mad at, or the ones that hate me at the moment. I've been dating him for some time now, and it seems that several people don't like the idea. I've been told one of my girl friends went up to him and told him to leave off and to stop being with me. I have only one response to that. BUG OFF! I know what I am doing and I think dating him has helped me in a way get over some past memories. That and he has kept me from doing things that would have ended my life. He really cares for me, and I can see that. So let me and him be for now. I don't think he will do anything to hurt me (Except bonk me on the head when I'm being stupid) and I won't hurt him...I can't really being physically smaller and all rolleyes I don't think this made any sense...oh well. The point of this whole thing is, is that I'm tired of people trying to but into my love life and break up my relationships. Most of my friends were fine when I had a long distance relationship, but when I have one physically, with a guy that I find to be a great friend, they seem to be over protective...

Posted by: Ethril the Dragon Mother Thu Mar 09, 2006 @ 11:46pm

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wizemanbob
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Tue Apr 04, 2006 @ 05:01am

I've no right to judge, nor would I, had I such a right.

But true friends have true reasons for disliking a relationship. Whether or no you want to, you should at least hear them out. Their concerns are real, ill-founded though they may be.

If they are really your friends, they'll want to be involved, whether or no it's 'their business'. They love you and want the best, even when it doesn't seem it. Of course they're more cautious about a closer (geographically speaking) relationship: he has more capability to hurt you if you're closer.

But the decision is yours and yours alone, in the end. Just be careful. That's all they really want of you anyway.

And don't think that just because you're smaller physically that you can't hurt him. I knew a guy once, he was a pretty big guy (Read: 250 lbs of muscle on a steel frame who could've bounced at a war-gods bar.). His girlfriend was this little thing that couldn't tip two bags of potatoes on a scale. And he was the one who came in with cuts and bruises from her. But he stayed on for a while, in love with her. And then she left him and broke his heart. He was so ripped up, he almost killed himself a few times. Emotions are much more fragile and tenuous than our physical bodies and are even harder to heal, if heal they ever can.

Sorry if this sounds like a lecture. It was at first meant to be short, but I kinda got going. I mean it, though. They all care about you, including your boyfriend. And me too, I suppose.

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