I never understood how someone could love two people at once. Just the thought of it sounded actually ridiculous to me and it still kind of does. "I love you, but I love her too?" Because if you really loved that first person like you claim you do then how does that other person come into the picture? How does that other person earn the feelings of love that you supposedly devoted to the person that was there first? If you had love the first person like you said then that other person wouldn't of made its way towards your heart like that. So in all, if you find yourself in this situation wouldn't it be better to pick the second person? After all, they stole that attention that you solely gave the first and they seemingly have a leash on it because you keep coming back. Just the thought is really mind boggling to me.
Now that I think about it, it's the same when people cheat. In all, that person that can't choose between two people is experiencing selfish love. In a way, I can see that person loves the two people that he loves in a special way. Those feelings are what he defines as love, but is it really love? One can't answer that because everyone loves differently. Love does not have a definition because everyone feels and thinks differently about it and the way they experience it. So can you really say its wrong for that person to fall in love with two people? Is it really love or can be simply put as selfish love.
Selfish love... They are hurting two people they care about the most because THEY can't seem to let go one or the other. In all, that person really thinks about themselves by going back and forth between the two. In our society, you're only allowed to love one person. Be with one person. Monogamy. Even though our ethical beliefs come into play with that, but can the human mind really process only having love for one person? Its natural to feel attracted to someone while being in relationship with someone but the choice is that if you wish to pursue it are you willing to deal with the consequences?
I never understood any of this, but I want to one day read inside the human mind and find out why a person can take that form of loyalty of feelings and spread them to someone else without cutting off the ties of the former person. Its a luring mystery.
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This Journal will contain quotes, poems, short or maybe long stories, and little thought entries. I'll make this a diary if I find it suitable. x3