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Chloe just told me he asks every day what she's doing, instead of making plans ahead of time.

I won't say anything to her, because I don't want to upset her, but holy ******** controlling creep alert.

"I want you when I want you, I don't want to ask permission" kinda thing. I really want to yell to her, tell her "OK THATS KINDA A BIG RED FLAG" but I don't want to poison her mind against him. Maybe he's not a controlling creep, but the more she tells me about him the more he seems like it.

Everything is on his terms, when he wants it, and when he wants to do it. I want to scream, every fiber of my being is yelling at me to "TELL HER, TELL HER TELL HER TELL HER TELL HER" but after her breakdown yesterday? It'd just upset her. I can't tell her, but I want to so ******** badly.

The creepy old guy harmony dated did the same thing to her. It was always on HIS terms. ughhh