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Drama, I hate it There was so much drama last night, it wasn't even funny. What started off as a little outburst, became a huge fight. Bleh. I will say what happend, but It's from MY point of view. It started off at about 9:30pm my time. I was in an AIM chat talking with some others. Suddenly, Lilithia gives us a link. I go there, and it turns out Kellion was doing a festival thingy just like Lilithia's. Out of a sudden outburst, Lilithia said something that would soon turn into a huge fight. Silver soon explained in the thread that they had called the festival off, because of Lilithia's feelings, but it still got too far. Next thing I know bombs are being thrown alll throughout the Ethereality thread, and others feelings are not considered. Soon, people were fighting over that the 'Kellion Chats' were for kellion regs, but I'm not one. It's because of them that I met so many great people. I didn't really comment throughout this mini war, just watched and tried to let it die on it's own. Soon, Tai msns me telling me to look at Lili's sig. I do, and it says she left gaia. I freaked out and talked to Lili on msn. It turns out she did leave gaia, because it seemed that all her friends had turned their back on her or something. It was just one huge mess. I started to cry. Finally, when things started to die down, it was 12:00pm my time. It had been almost 3 hours and Lilithia had left gaia. I had a headache, so I retired off to bed, in hopes I would change Lili's mind in the morning. When I came on gaia today, I started to make a thread in her guild of how I wanted her back. I checked her profile, and her avie was dressed Lilithia style and her siggy was back to normal. I was overjoyed and check Ethereality to see if my suspisions were correct. Sure enough, Lilithia had returned gaia! She just needed some down time. See how much drama went on? All over a few words. I know this could have been easily avoided. But now Lilithia knows who her true riends are. I just hope it get as close to normal as it can get. Well, I'm off to go get ready for the mall. I'm soo going to play DDR! Seeya!

Posted by: x_Megan_x Fri Apr 01, 2005 @ 03:30pm

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Commented on: Sat Apr 02, 2005 @ 04:14am


	Lol, that's the best report ever. & it's the truth. xp heart heart

Commented on: Sat Apr 02, 2005 @ 04:17am


	I'm glad you like it. <3 And the world should be filled with truths, not lies or rumours.

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Commented on: Sat Apr 02, 2005 @ 07:59pm


	Wow. I knew nothing of this since I don't hang out in the Arts forums, really, but I'm sorry that all that happened X_x;; Good thing that it's done and over with, though 3nodding I hope that whatever broken pieces are mended!

Commented on: Sun Apr 03, 2005 @ 03:49am


	Stwa, not everything has been mended yet, but it is all slowly. The experiance, however, and seperated the tru friends, from the ones you can't trust. It's been a learning experiance for Lili, and I hope everything gets better.

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Commented on: Thu Apr 07, 2005 @ 03:14am


	Said something? She kinda said F- you to those members of Kellion who had once supported her getting those bunny slippers. All because someone jumped to conclusions, and assumed that festivals were her idea (seeing as no note of 'elements' ever occured in Kellion's instance, so the only thing similar was the word 'festival' itself). Then she goes to 'leave gaia' only to return a few hours later like nothing had happened (which was predictable), saying that she thought it was best to do such a thing. Nothing was settled, nothing was resolved, and no apologies were made, and everyone on her side sought the need to drop it because it had somehow gotten out of hand. And calling it a 'few words' doesn't make it any less worse, or any less hurtful in the instance it was used to the specific people it was aimed at.

Commented on: Thu Apr 07, 2005 @ 04:01am


	crying Yeah, that pretty much sounds like what I've heard. Lili's comment may a been a bit harsh, but it's the backstabbing done by her friends that makes me sad. Quarrels and disagreements happen, but I don't like the way things were handled for this incident. I think people were spreading private conversations when they shouldn't have. It really lowers the trust level among friends.

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Commented on: Sat Apr 09, 2005 @ 03:46pm


	Alt: I agree. <3 Cyph: Yes, even though she did say that, I did not want the word quoted in my entry. Evenso, everyone loses control of themselves once in a while and does things they would regret. After she had said that, others pretty much did the same thing back to her. It depends on which way you look at it. And if you looked at the set up, it was a lot similar to Lilithia's. Still, I'm not blaming this fight on anyone, because, it could of been avoided easily, and escalated to the point where it wasn't anyones fault. It takes 2 to have a conflict.

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