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I'm making this one cause i seem to see many of my friends suffering by taking back someone that broke their heart. Cause they plan to take back a person that broke their heart. And much more. I shall admit i USED to take people back, but stopped. Yes i shall go personal in my life and that of others i know with this journal, i shall say my mind caringless who it hurts, i shall be 100% HONEST.
-lets start with one of my friends, Maria(sophtmore not senior). She fell for this guy called Kal-el (one of our friends). They went out, yea cool. they looked cute and all. Then he dumps her calling ehr a slut, whore, drunk, and much more. She cried and suffer for abotu a week or so for him till he comes back askign her out after he had pulled that little stunt on her. What does she do? Takes him back. Then recently, not so long ago he dumps her AGAIN. This time saying, "I feel like i'm betrayign my religion, i dotn liek peopel liek you, and m mom hates you.." and once more she suffered, and cried for his pathetic a**. And just to put it out their his mom hates everyone, heck she's given me death threats before
-Now lets go on with Elizabeth. Sweety i'm sorry but i'm trying to put a statment in this journal and am goign to use as much true examples as i can. A few years back she went out with this guy named Irvin(i never meet him face to face so yea). Well He broke her heart, then comes back askign for her back. I'm not goign in detale what happened with them becuase i know there is a limit with this story. They've broken up i dont knwo how many times and he always comming back to her, and she takign him back. He had romanced her too much. She suffered (from what i've seen and heard) durring those two freaking years they where together. She suffered for his sorry, useless, ignorant, pathetic life. i'm glad she understood taht he isnt for her, and tries to get away from him now(most of the time)
-This one is Tabby... i actually feel responsable for this one... Okay so i helped her and Juan go out, heck i was the one that got them together (litteraly). They always broke up for stupid reasons and then got back together within minutes. So sounds okay right? up to there yea it is okay, cause seriously they where stupid reasons. But now he starts treating her badly just cause she forgot her cell, and was useing the cell of someone else. From their he starts treating her...not so nice, right? And now even after she finds out he LIED to her about somethign i will not put, she is STILL plannign to take him back!
-Me... Yea you all know it, GR. Most people know this story. a hole 7 months full of lies, backstabbings, betrayals, humileations, romance, sexual activities (dont dare ask!), and plenty of other things. He and i where on and off during those 7 months. Here is the thing. I had a crush on him a year before he and i even started going out, and he knew. We became friends, then best friends, then one anothers first love... blah blah blah like said most know what happened between us (and even seen) so no point in going into uncomforting details. because of that little basterd that i still seem to want back but never will i am still sad, i'm still feeling betrayed, i cant trust no man 100%(jamal that sorta includes you), I cant believe when someoen says i'm pretty, by all means my self esteem is down below the ground, and the reason i badly wish to wait till marrage to have any actual relation.....and more things too. and sooo many more things. And another guy who swore he wouldnt do what GR did, what does he do? the exact same crap..i swear this is starting to make me hate men soo much..

I'm no one to judge on this, but i will give my personal opinion of it. I seriously think if a girl takes back a guy after he hurts her badly with out being 92% sure he wont do the same thing again is VERY stupid. That includes me. Seriously why take back someone that has hurt you badly, i dont give a ******** how much you claim to love them or any other s**t you should love yourself more not to let yourself suffer more. Hey, if you already are suffering all you're gonna cause is MORE pain. I will NEVER take someone back, despite how much i love them. If i take them back then i have to have proof that they wont EVER do it again. Second chances must be earned, then after wards the person will still have to continue proving they wont do it again. That's what i say, at least now i do. And all this goes the same for a guy wanting to take back a girl. As much as i hate men(apparently), i still dont think it to be fair for them to suffer...at times at least.